Every person can see the dangerous things that you shouldn’t ignore in a relationship. Cheating, threats, and violence are the obvious reasons to break up. But what should you do if there are no obvious problems but the relationship doesn’t seem to be enjoyable. It’s often difficult to see the difference between habit and true love.
We have collected some non-obvious signs showing that love is definitely gone.
1. Your partner seems worse than before.
A year ago, you were crazy about his voice and you kept telling your friends how cute he was. Today, his habits seem ridiculous and his voice seems annoying. You don’t want to be with his friends or parents and the way he walks makes you angry.
But in fact, the person didn’t change, it’s your attitude toward him that changed. If you are annoyed by each other all the time, it’s a clear sign that the relationship is not going anywhere.
2. You look for rational reasons to be together.
Sometimes you think about breaking up but then you remember that his apartment is close to your office and it’s cheaper to travel together. Your friends and parents like your partner which is important too.
These thoughts have nothing to do with love, they just mean that it’s convenient for you to be together. It’s better to find the energy to change something and stop a relationship that is already over than regretting that you spent years of your life with the wrong person.