5. You avoid thoughts and conversations about your future together.
Sometimes you think about changing your job, moving to another city, participating in a volunteer project, or furthering your education. Even though these global plans lead to big changes, you don’t talk about them with your partner. You also don’t like it when he talks about your plans together: you change the subject when he does that.
A good stable relationship is not something you have only now, it’s something that has a future. If your goals are different and talking about them is annoying, you should try to do something about it.
6. You are trying to minimize your partner’s presence in your life.
It’s not about not bothering someone you love every second. You just don’t want to spend as much time with him as you once did. Now, it’s better for you to go shopping alone even if he has the car. Now, you like walking and traveling alone.
Maybe, you are just going through a phase. Or maybe you’re just tired of him. You really should go on vacation alone and try to understand if you want to keep the relationship with your partner.