Relationship Issues: No one, and I repeat, NO ONE likes to be lead on by the person they have developed feelings for. But, not surprisingly, in this day and technology age, it’s easier and easier to be led on more than one might think. These days, we seem to have the world at our fingertips thanks to social media sites like Twitter, Snapchat, Instagram, and Facebook so we’re able to connect with people so much faster than we did back in the age before the internet. Sure, that makes it easier to meet new people and date, but it also makes it easier for someone who has a wondering eye to stray the path a bit. Or it makes it easier to date someone who just is dating for the fun of it and has no real aspirations to settle down.
It’s hard to tell those types of people apart, but there are obvious red flags to look for: when he says “he’s in a difficult place right now” or that he’s “not looking for anything serious” after the third date or that infamous “why ruin the fun we’re having now by looking too deep into it?” line. These are all easy to spot and usually sends women who are looking for a commitment running for the hills. But then there are the ones who seem extremely into us one minute, and then can’t be found in any capacity one minute later.
Here are 20 signs that his attention to you is on the fake side, just in case he might be a difficult book to crack.