6. He’s Constantly On Snapchat
At first, we thought it was adorable and flirty – when he would send snaps of him with different, playful, filters to let you know he was thinking about you. You two were in the beginning stages of your dating and figured everything was okay until you noticed he has a reeeaaalllly high number of snaps he sends out, and that number is constantly growing with each passing day.
Snapchat is one of the most popular forms of social media these days thanks to the Kardashian clan and Rihanna hyping it up. And if you’re familiar with Snapchat, you know that the messages disappear after you open them (the personal ones – a story can stay up for 24 hours before disappearing). And if you take a screenshot of a picture or video, the person who sent it gets notified.
Thing is, if he’s only sending you messages through Snapchat and not texting, it’s a giant red flag. It’s because he knows that if he says something completely moronic, there’s no evidence of it after it is read. Their feelings, like the Snapchat stories, are fleeting and have an expiration date so it’s best to try to avoid anyone who chooses to ONLY flirt with you on this form of social media.
5. He Only Compliments Your Looks
Those daily “good morning, beautiful” text messages managed to reel you in, and now you’re looking for a deeper connection. You’ve managed to have a couple of somewhat intimate conversations, but nothing ever too deep because he seemed like he wasn’t too interested in knowing exactly who you are and your life in general. By only complimenting your looks, he’s made it clear that he really only sees you as an object – a trophy that he plans on admiring for a bit before retiring you to a shelf and never really thinking about you again.
“While everyone wants to look their best and feel attractive, if you’re in it for the long haul, you’d obviously like your partner to appreciate you and not just your body,” The Health Orange reveals. “Men who are serious about a relationship will be in awe or at the very least be appreciative of your other qualities like your intelligence, generosity, kindness, or sense of humor too.”
If he’s only in it for your looks, he would constantly compliment only that aspect of you, and that’s a clear-cut warning sign that he’s not willing to get into a serious relationship with you and it’s best if you just walk away.