Ladies, Stop Being So Nice — It’s Killing Your Game

1. DON’T BE THE ONE TO INITIATE CONTACT. But if he reaches out, you should reply.

2. DON’T BAKE HIM COOKIES OR MAKE HIM DINNER. Save that til you’re sure things are going well.

3. DON’T BE AVAILABLE EVERY TIME HE WANTS TO HANG OUT.Keep busy.

4. DON’T ACCOMMODATE HIS EVERY WHIM.If he suggests a restaurant you don’t like, say so.

5. DON’T GIVE HIM A BACK RUB. Not until you’re much farther along.

6. DON’T TELL HIM YOU’RE INTO HIM.He should be the first to be explicit about how much he digs you.

7. DON’T PLAN EVERYTHING AROUND HIM.Life should go on even when you’re not with him.

8. DON’T USE GUSHY EMOTICONS IN YOUR NOTES. Smiley faces are fine. No hearts.

9. DON’T SLEEP WITH HIM OR SLEEP OVER.Definitely a no-no until you know he’s smitten.

10. DON’T BUY HIM CLOTHES OR OTHER PRESENTS.Not until you’re in a committed relationship.

11. DON’T LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU TALK ABOUT HIM ENDLESSLY. There’s no point to sharing this.

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